Obituary examples

Obituary Examples for a Wife

Five complete obituaries for a wife, including one written by her husband, plus opening and closing lines you can borrow. Copy one and change the details, or answer a few questions and the free obituary writer will draft one for her.

What to include

  • 1

    Her full name

    Include her maiden name in parentheses, and the nickname everyone used.

  • 2

    Dates and places

    Where she was born, where you made your home, and the date she died.

  • 3

    Your marriage

    How you met, the year you married, and how many years you had together.

  • 4

    What she was like

    Her work, her faith or hobbies, and the habit or saying only you would know.

  • 5

    The people she loved

    You first, then her children, grandchildren and siblings, and those who died before her.

  • 6

    Service details

    Visitation, funeral or memorial service, burial, and where to send donations.

5 obituary examples

A classic obituary for a wife

A general example for a wife and mother: her life, your marriage, the family and the service, in about 200 words. Start here if you are not sure which style you want.

209 words

Patricia Ann "Patty" (Morgan) Fischer, 74, of Peoria, Illinois, passed away peacefully on October 12, 2026, surrounded by her family.

Patty was born on February 20, 1952, in Pekin, Illinois, to Robert and Joan Morgan. She married her high school sweetheart, Gary Fischer, in 1973, and together they built a home that was never locked and never quiet. She worked as a school nurse for thirty years and was the first person every child in the building ran to, scraped knee or broken heart.

Patty did the crossword in pen, cheered for the Cardinals from April to October, and could feed twelve people on an hour's notice. Every anniversary, she and Gary went back to the diner where he proposed and ordered the same two slices of pie.

She is survived by her husband of 53 years, Gary; her children, Jennifer (Kyle) Adams and Brian (Megan) Fischer; five grandchildren; and her sister, Donna Reese. She was preceded in death by her parents and her brother, Jim.

Visitation will be held Thursday, October 15, from 4 to 7 p.m. at Hillcrest Funeral Home. The funeral will be Friday, October 16, at 10 a.m. at First Presbyterian Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the local food pantry.

Written by her husband

For a husband who wants to speak in his own voice. The facts and the family come first, so readers can still find them.

221 words

Eleanor "Ellie" (Hale) Watts, 79, of Asheville, North Carolina, died on October 4, 2026. She was born on January 22, 1947, in Hendersonville, North Carolina. Her husband, Frank, wrote this for her:

I met Ellie in 1968 at the college library, where she worked the front desk. I returned a book three days late on purpose so I would have a reason to go back. We were married the next year, and I spent fifty-seven years trying to keep up with her.

She taught third grade for thirty-one years and could quiet a room of eight-year-olds just by closing a book. She read every novel before I did and never once told me the ending. I made her coffee every morning, and every morning she told me it was too strong. It was. I kept making it that way so she would tell me.

Ellie, thank you for every page. I'll keep reading.

Ellie is also survived by her daughters, Sarah (Tom) Lindsey and Rebecca Watts; her grandsons, Owen and Eli; and her brother, Richard Hale. She was preceded in death by her parents, Walter and June Hale.

A memorial service will be held Friday, October 16, at 2 p.m. at Hillcrest Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, give a book to a school library, or read one to a child.

A short obituary for the newspaper

Newspapers charge by the line, so this one keeps to the essentials in under 100 words.

71 words

Joyce Ann (Carter) Holt, 86, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, died on October 7, 2026. A retired bank teller and a faithful member of Faith Baptist Church, she was the beloved wife of 64 years of Donald Holt; loving mother of Steve (Lori) Holt and Debra (Rick) Lane; grandmother of seven; and great-grandmother of four. The funeral will be held Monday, October 12, at 10 a.m. at the church, with burial to follow.

A pastor’s wife

For a wife whose life was her faith and her church, with a verse and a homegoing service.

225 words

Gloria Jean (Ellis) Turner, 80, of Montgomery, Alabama, went home to be with the Lord on October 1, 2026.

Gloria was born on June 30, 1946, in Selma, Alabama, and married Calvin Turner in 1966. For forty-one years she served beside him at Greater New Hope Baptist Church, where the congregation knew her as First Lady Turner and the children knew her as the lady with peppermints in her purse. She led the women's ministry, ran Vacation Bible School every summer, and never missed a hospital visit, a funeral dinner or a chance to sing alto in the choir.

Her home was open to anyone who needed a meal or a prayer, and her advice came with a hug and a Bible verse. As her family says of her, "Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her" (Proverbs 31:28).

She is survived by her husband of 60 years, the Rev. Dr. Calvin Turner; her children, Calvin Jr. (Angela) Turner and Monica (Darryl) Wells; six grandchildren; and a church family too large to count. She was preceded in death by her parents and her sister, Bernice.

A viewing will be held Friday, October 9, from 5 to 7 p.m. at the church. The homegoing service will be Saturday, October 10, at 11 a.m. at Greater New Hope Baptist Church.

A wife and business partner

For a couple who worked side by side, here running a family hardware store.

193 words

Joan Marie (Lutz) Becker, 77, of Fredericksburg, Texas, passed away on October 10, 2026.

Joan was born on December 5, 1948, in Fredericksburg, and married Bill Becker in 1970. In 1978 the two of them opened Becker's Hardware on Main Street, and for the next forty-four years they ran it together. Bill sold the hammers; Joan knew where they were. She did the books, ordered the stock, remembered what every customer had bought the last time, and kept a jar of dog treats by the register.

People came in for a washer and left with a recipe, a piece of advice and a story about the town. Even after they retired, she stopped by the store most mornings to make sure everything was where it belonged.

Joan is survived by her husband of 56 years, Bill; her son, Kurt (Melissa) Becker, who runs the store today; her daughter, Anne (Chris) Weber; and four grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her parents, Otto and Hilda Lutz.

The funeral will be held Wednesday, October 14, at 10 a.m. at St. Paul Lutheran Church. Becker's Hardware will be closed that day so everyone can attend.

Opening and closing lines

Starting is often the hardest part. Borrow a first or last line and replace the highlighted parts.

To begin

  • Full name (maiden name) last name, age, of city, beloved wife of years years to husband’s name, passed away on date.

  • With great sadness, we share that full name, devoted wife, mother and grandmother, died on date at the age of age.

  • My wife, first name, died on date, and I have never known a quieter house.

  • First name "nickname" last name passed away peacefully on date, with her husband, husband’s name, holding her hand.

  • Full name, age, went home to be with the Lord on date, surrounded by her family.

To close

  • She is survived by her husband, husband’s name, who was lucky enough to be loved by her for years years.

  • Her love lives on in her husband, her children and every table she ever set for one more.

  • Husband’s name and the family thank hospice or care team for the gentle care she received.

  • Rest now, my love. I will carry you with me until we meet again.

  • In lieu of flowers, plant something that blooms. She would like that better.

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Questions families ask

How long should an obituary for a wife be?

Newspapers charge by the line, so a printed obituary is often 100 to 200 words. Online, on a memorial page or in a funeral program, 200 to 400 words gives room for her story, your marriage and the people she loved.

Should I include her maiden name?

Yes, if people knew her before she married. Put it in parentheses before her married name, as in Patricia Ann (Morgan) Fischer, or write "née Morgan." Naming her parents also helps old friends from her hometown recognize her.

How do I list myself as her husband?

You come first among the survivors: "She is survived by her husband of 53 years, Gary," or "her beloved husband, Gary Fischer." The number of years, or the year you married, tells readers a great deal in a few words.

Can I write my wife’s obituary in my own words?

Yes. Some husbands write the whole obituary in the first person, and others add a short note at the end, like the second example above. Keep the facts in the usual order (her name, age, dates, family and service details) so readers can find them.

Should I write "wife" or "partner"?

Use the word the two of you used. "Wife" is right for a married couple, whether her spouse was a man or a woman. For a long relationship without marriage, "her partner of 22 years, Tom" or "her companion, Tom" is respectful and widely used.

Can I publish her obituary online for free?

Yes. The FuneralFolio obituary writer is free, and you can publish the obituary to a free memorial page with a link to share by text, email or social media. Newspapers charge separately for a printed obituary.