Obituary examples

Obituary Examples for a Husband

Five complete obituaries for a husband, including one written by his wife, plus opening and closing lines you can borrow. Copy one and change the details, or answer a few questions and the free obituary writer will draft one for him.

What to include

  • 1

    His full name

    Add the nickname everyone used, in quotation marks.

  • 2

    Dates and places

    Where he was born, where you made your home, and the date he died.

  • 3

    Your marriage

    How you met, the year you married, and how many years you had together.

  • 4

    What he was like

    His work, his hobbies, and the habit or saying only you would know.

  • 5

    The people he loved

    You first, then his children, grandchildren and siblings, and those who died before him.

  • 6

    Service details

    Visitation, funeral or celebration of life, burial, and where to send donations.

5 obituary examples

A classic obituary for a husband

A general example for a husband and father: his life, your marriage, the family and the service, in about 200 words. Start here if you are not sure which style you want.

214 words

Robert James "Bob" Hanley, 76, of Lancaster, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully on October 11, 2026, with his wife of 54 years, Susan, at his side.

Bob was born on May 14, 1950, in Lititz, Pennsylvania, to Joseph and Marian Hanley. He met Susan at a church picnic in 1971, married her the next summer, and spent the rest of his life making her laugh. An electrician by trade, he ran Hanley Electric for thirty-five years and wired half the houses in the county.

He brought Susan her coffee every morning, grew more tomatoes than any family could eat, and never missed a Penn State game. Saturday nights, the two of them could be found square dancing at the fire hall, and he was always the last to leave the floor.

Bob is survived by his wife, Susan; his children, Kevin (Lisa) Hanley and Laura (Mark) Brenneman; five grandchildren; and his brother, Dennis. He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Joan.

Visitation will be held Thursday, October 15, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Hillcrest Funeral Home. The funeral will be Friday, October 16, at 11 a.m. at Grace United Methodist Church, with burial to follow. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to the local volunteer fire company.

Written by his wife

For a wife who wants to speak in her own voice. The facts and the family come first, so readers can still find them.

212 words

Gerald "Gerry" Novak, 81, of Green Bay, Wisconsin, died on October 6, 2026. He was born on March 2, 1945, in De Pere, Wisconsin, to Frank and Helen Novak. His wife, Margaret, wrote this for him:

I met Gerry at a church dance in 1965. He stepped on my feet twice and asked me out anyway. We were married the next summer, and for sixty years he made me laugh at least once a day, even on the hard days.

He worked thirty-four years at the paper mill and never once complained about the hours. He could fix anything with duct tape and a Packers game on the radio. He held my hand in church, at the doctor's office and in the car, and he always let me have the last word, even when he knew he was right.

Gerry, you were the best decision I ever made. Thank you for sixty years. Save me a dance.

Gerry is also survived by his children, Mark (Julie) Novak, Teresa (Paul) Kowalski and Steven Novak; eight grandchildren; and his sister, Dorothy. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Joe.

A celebration of Gerry's life will be held Saturday, October 17, from 2 to 5 p.m. at the Ashwaubenon Community Center.

A short obituary for the newspaper

Newspapers charge by the line, so this one keeps to the essentials in under 100 words.

84 words

Charles Wesley Pruitt, 84, of Lexington, Kentucky, died on October 8, 2026. A retired high school history teacher and a longtime deacon at First Baptist Church, he was the devoted husband of 61 years to Frances; loving father of Mark (Denise) Pruitt and Carolyn (Jeff) Mabry; and proud grandfather of six. Visitation will be held Tuesday, October 13, from 5 to 7 p.m. at Hillcrest Funeral Home. The funeral will be Wednesday, October 14, at 11 a.m. at the church, with burial to follow.

Married 65 years

For a long marriage, when the love story is the heart of his story.

235 words

Arthur Henry Jensen, 89, of Cedar Falls, Iowa, passed away on October 3, 2026, eight weeks before his 66th wedding anniversary.

Art was born on April 9, 1937, in Waterloo, Iowa. He met Arlene Schmidt at a roller rink in 1958, asked her to skate the couples' skate, and she said yes before he finished the question. They were married on November 28, 1960, and he spent the next sixty-five years trying to make her laugh like that again. Most days, he did.

They farmed corn and soybeans outside Cedar Falls for forty years, Art in the field and Arlene keeping the books, raising four children and driving the grain truck at harvest. They never took a trip without a cooler of sandwiches, and they never went to bed angry, though Art said some nights they stayed up very late.

In his last years, when his memory began to fade, he still knew her. Every morning he asked, "Is my girl coming today?" and every day she was there.

Art is survived by his wife of 65 years, Arlene; his children, Linda (Roger) Meyer, David (Sue) Jensen, Karen Jensen and Paul (Amy) Jensen; eleven grandchildren; and nine great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, Henry and Clara, and his brothers, Carl and Harold.

The funeral will be held Thursday, October 8, at 10:30 a.m. at Our Savior's Lutheran Church, with burial to follow.

A second chance at love

For a husband who married again later in life, with his first wife, his children and his stepchildren listed with care.

221 words

Raymond Louis "Ray" Dubois, 78, of Lafayette, Louisiana, passed away at home on October 9, 2026, with his wife, Diane, at his side.

Ray was born on August 18, 1948, in Opelousas, Louisiana. He spent thirty years as a petroleum engineer, much of it two weeks on and two weeks off on rigs in the Gulf. After he lost his first wife, Claudette, in 2009, he thought the best part of his life was behind him. Then, at a Friday-night dance in 2012, Diane asked him for a two-step, and he never sat down again. They married in 2014, and he liked to tell anyone who would listen that he had been lucky twice.

Ray made a gumbo that could stop an argument, kept a boat he called "Second Wind," and never met a grandchild, step or otherwise, that he didn't spoil.

Ray is survived by his wife of 12 years, Diane; his children, Michelle (Andre) Guidry and Marc (Tina) Dubois; his stepchildren, Brian (Kelly) Hebert and Amy Hebert; and nine grandchildren, all of whom he called his own. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Claudette, and his parents, Louis and Odile Dubois.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Wednesday, October 14, at 10 a.m. at St. Anne Catholic Church, with visitation beginning at 8:30 a.m.

Opening and closing lines

Starting is often the hardest part. Borrow a first or last line and replace the highlighted parts.

To begin

  • Full name, age, of city, beloved husband of years years to wife’s name, passed away on date.

  • With broken hearts, we share that full name, loving husband, father and grandfather, died on date at the age of age.

  • My husband, first name, died on date, years years after the day we were married.

  • First name "nickname" last name passed away peacefully on date, holding the hand of his wife, wife’s name.

  • Full name, age, went home to the Lord on date, with his wife of years years at his side.

To close

  • He is survived by the love of his life, wife’s name, and by the family they built together.

  • He never let a day go by without telling his wife he loved her, and she never let one go by without hearing it.

  • Wife’s name and the family thank hospice or care team for the kindness they showed him in his final weeks.

  • Thank you for years years, my love. Save me a dance.

  • In lieu of flowers, take the one you love out to dinner. That was his idea of a perfect evening.

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Questions families ask

How long should an obituary for a husband be?

Newspapers charge by the line, so a printed obituary is often 100 to 200 words. Online, on a memorial page or in a funeral program, 200 to 400 words gives room for his story, your marriage and the people he loved.

How do I list myself as his wife?

You come first among the survivors: "He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Susan," or "his beloved wife, Susan (Miller) Hanley." Adding the number of years, or the year you married, tells readers a great deal in a few words.

Can I write my husband’s obituary in my own words?

Yes. Some wives write the whole obituary in the first person, and others add a short note at the end, like the second example above. Keep the facts in the usual order (his name, age, dates, family and service details) so readers can find them.

How do I mention a first wife or a second marriage?

If his first wife has died, list her among those who preceded him in death: "He was preceded in death by his first wife, Claudette." List children from both marriages, as his children or as children and stepchildren, using the words your family uses. A former wife who is living is usually not listed unless the family is close.

Should I write "husband" or "partner"?

Use the word the two of you used. "Husband" is right for a married couple, whether his spouse was a woman or a man. For a long relationship without marriage, "his partner of 22 years, Ellen" or "his companion, Ellen" is respectful and widely used.

Can I publish his obituary online for free?

Yes. The FuneralFolio obituary writer is free, and you can publish the obituary to a free memorial page with a link to share by text, email or social media. Newspapers charge separately for a printed obituary.