In Loving Memory

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Vernon Oldham

January 13, 1973 — September 9, 2026

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Vernon Oldham, who left this world on September 9, 2026. Born on January 13, 1973, in Nashville, Tennessee, Vernon was a beacon of strength and love, deeply cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him. Vernon was the beloved son of Beverly and the late Maxx Oldham. He spent his formative years in Nashville, where he developed a passion for music and community service, both of which would become cornerstones of his life. Vernon's father, Maxx, instilled in him the values of hard work and kindness, and Vernon carried these principles into all his endeavors. He was married to his soulmate, Bobbie Lee Hunter, with whom he shared many years of love and companionship before her passing. Together, they built a life filled with laughter, joy, and enduring memories. Vernon and Bobbie were blessed with a beautiful family that includes their cherished children: Ceara, Vernon Jr., and Vincent. They, along with Vernon's devoted mother Beverly, continue to honor his legacy with love and dedication. Vernon's greatest joy came from his role as a grandfather to his 12 grandchildren, each of whom brought immense happiness and pride into his life. Vernon's professional life was marked by his unwavering dedication to helping others. His career in social services was a testament to his selfless nature and his commitment to making the world a better place for future generations. Colleagues and friends remember him as a compassionate leader and a tireless advocate for those in need. In his personal time, Vernon was an avid musician, often found strumming his guitar or attending local music events. His love for music was contagious and served as a bridge connecting him with people from all walks of life, creating a tapestry of friendships that spanned decades. Vernon's passing leaves a void that cannot be filled, but his spirit lives on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him. His legacy of kindness, integrity, and passion will continue to inspire and guide his family, friends, and community. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to a charity close to Vernon's heart, as a way to honor his memory and continue his lifelong mission of helping others. A celebration of Vernon's life will be held in Nashville, where family and friends will gather to remember and honor a remarkable man who touched so many lives. While we mourn his loss, we also celebrate the incredible life he lived and the indelible mark he left on the world.