valerie backhaus

Valerie Backhaus, a beloved mother, grandmother, daughter, and friend, peacefully departed this world on May 19, 2026, surrounded by the love of her family, at her home in Sioux Falls, South Dakota. Born on March 12, 1958, to Elvin and Mabel Kaufman, Valerie was a beacon of strength, compassion, and grace throughout her 68 years. Her life was a testament to resilience, love, and dedication to those she cherished most. Valerie's journey began in Sioux Falls, where she was raised with warmth and care. She graduated from Marion High School in 1976, demonstrating early on her commitment to learning and growth. Continuing her education, Valerie earned a Bachelor of Nursing degree from South Dakota State University in 1980, launching a career that would touch countless lives and leave an indelible mark on the hearts of many. Her professional journey began in nursing, where she worked tirelessly until 1993. Valerie's nurturing spirit and innate ability to comfort those in need defined her years in healthcare. In 1993, she embarked on a new venture, starting a Mary Kay business, where her entrepreneurial spirit shone brightly. She built not just a successful business, but also a community of empowered individuals who were inspired by her passion and determination. In 2010, Valerie returned to her roots in healthcare, transitioning to roles that allowed her to work closely with families, offering support and understanding during their most challenging times. Her empathetic nature and unwavering support became a source of solace for many. Valerie's life was deeply enriched by her family. She is survived by her cherished sons, Neil Backhaus and his wife Shelby, and Nathan Backhaus, who were the pride and joy of her life. Her legacy continues through her beloved grandchildren, Pasley and Paxton, who brought immense joy and light into her life. Valerie's love for her family was boundless, and her dedication to them was evident in every story shared and every moment spent together. Predeceased by her daughter, Nicole "Nikki" Backhaus, Valerie found solace in her garden, which became her sanctuary. Gardening was more than a hobby; it was a healing journey and a tribute to Nikki, where Valerie found peace and connection to her cherished memories. Valerie's life was a tapestry woven with love, resilience, and a profound ability to touch the lives of those around her. Her legacy is one of kindness, perseverance, and an unwavering commitment to uplifting others. She will be remembered for her warm smile, her compassionate heart, and her unwavering strength. As we say goodbye to Valerie, we celebrate a life well-lived and honor the beautiful soul who blessed us with her presence. A private family service will be held to commemorate her life, where stories will be shared, and her memory will be cherished forever. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a charity close to Valerie's heart, supporting families in need, reflecting her lifelong dedication to helping others. Valerie Backhaus, a loving mother, grandmother, and friend, will be profoundly missed but never forgotten. Her spirit will continue to guide and inspire those who were fortunate enough to know her.