Trudy Gail Farmer

Trudy Gail Farmer, a cherished member of the community and a beacon of kindness and dedication, passed away peacefully at Greenbriar Skilled Nursing in Enid, Oklahoma, on September 6, 2026. Born on June 29, 1949, in Talaquah, Oklahoma, Trudy's life was a testament to compassion, resilience, and love. Daughter to the late John and Edna Crittenden, Trudy grew up in Blackwell, Oklahoma, where she graduated from Blackwell Public Schools with the class of 1969. She furthered her education at Northern Oklahoma College, earning an Associate Degree in Business. This academic foundation led to a fruitful career at Conoco, where she dedicated 25 years to the accounting and billing department, showcasing her organizational talents and attention to detail. Trudy was a proud Lifetime member of the VFW Auxiliary, serving diligently for 50 years. Her commitment to helping veterans was unwavering, and she found immense joy in contributing to their welfare. Trudy's compassionate nature extended beyond her professional life; she was a devoted family woman who cherished time spent with loved ones. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Richard Farmer, and her parents, John and Edna. Her memory will be lovingly cherished by her sister, Sherry Landers, nephew Justin Landers and his wife Julie of Texas, niece LeAnn Glass of Blackwell, great-nephew Dylan Landers and his wife Kelice of Blackwell, great-niece Darcy Moxley and her husband Cade of Mustang, great-niece Dystany and her husband Camden of Owasso, and great-great-niece Brynn Moxley of Mustang, Oklahoma. Trudy's family extends their heartfelt gratitude to everyone for their prayers and support. They wish to thank the dedicated staff, doctors, nurses, and physical therapy team at St. Mary’s Hospital, as well as Angel Care Home Health and Furncis Dialysis in Ponca City, for their exceptional care and compassion. In honor of Trudy's memory, donations may be made to a charity of your choice, reflecting her lifelong commitment to giving and service. Trudy will be remembered not only for her organizational skills and her ability to keep things in perfect order but also for her warmth, kindness, and unwavering dedication to those she loved and served. She leaves behind a legacy of love and service that will be fondly remembered by all who knew her.