Tom Kelly

It is with heavy hearts and profound gratitude for a life well-lived that we announce the passing of Tom Kelly, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. Tom departed this world peacefully on April 27, 2026, in the tender care of the nurses, LPNs, and CNAs of Montereau and St. Francis Hospice. He was 89 years old. Tom was born on March 31, 1937, in the vibrant city of New York, New York, to John and Theresa Kelly, who preceded him in death. Growing up in the bustling streets of New York, Tom developed a love for life that was as expansive as the city itself. His journey led him to LaSalle High School, from which he graduated in 1952, and then to Manhattan College, where he earned a Bachelor’s degree in Accounting in 1956. His thirst for knowledge and excellence continued as he obtained his CPA from North Carolina in 1970. In 1959, Tom answered the call to serve his country, joining the U.S. Army as a chaplain's assistant at Ft. Benning, GA. His military service was a testament to his dedication and commitment to the values he held dear. Tom’s professional life was as dynamic as his spirit. For over 30 years, he excelled as an accountant, auditor, internal auditor, and controller for various companies, jobs that gave him the opportunity to travel internationally and experience the world beyond American shores. On July 10, 1971, Tom married the love of his life, Rita, in New York. Their marriage of 54 years was a tapestry woven with love, shared dreams, and a special kind of sarcastic laughter that kept their bond unbreakable. Together, they raised two wonderful children: Elizabeth, and Drew, who with his wife Melissa, gave Tom the joy of being a grandfather to Caden. Tom was a man of contrasts—a gentle giant with a stern demeanor that often intimidated his children's friends, yet he was full of fun and laughter. His presence was commanding, but his heart was tender, filled with love for his family and cherished memories with his sister, Theresa, and brother, Jack. As we gather to celebrate Tom's life, we remember the legacy of kindness, integrity, and humor he leaves behind. The service will be held on May 5, 2026, at 11:00 AM at St. Mary's in Tulsa, OK. Family, friends, and all whose lives he touched are invited to join in honoring a man who gave so much of himself to those he loved. In this time of sorrow, we take comfort in knowing that Tom is reunited with his beloved parents, John and Theresa Kelly, and that his spirit lives on in the hearts of his family and friends. He will be dearly missed but forever remembered for the love and joy he brought into our lives. Rest in peace, Tom. Your journey on this earth has ended, but your legacy of love and laughter will endure.