In Loving Memory

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Thomas W. Bezduda

April 30, 1954 — October 5, 2026

Thomas W. Bezduda, a beloved figure in the world of fashion and a cherished friend to many, passed away peacefully at home on October 5, 2026, in the comforting embrace of his partner and surrounded by friends, following a valiant battle with Parkinson’s disease. Born on April 30, 1954, in New York City, Tom led a life rich in creativity, love, and kindness. Tom was the cherished son of Catherine Bezduda and was predeceased by his mother as well as his dear foster parents, Ida and Natale Ghiggeri. He was also preceded in death by his aunts and uncles, Anna and Alfred Calamari, William and Neale Bezduda, and foster brothers Andrew Echeverio, John and Faye Ghiggeri, and Fred March. He is survived by his devoted spouse of 49 years, Joseph Lucchese, whose love and support were constants in his life. Additionally, he leaves behind the Echeverio family, the Ghiggeri family, the March family, his mother in law Flora Lucchese and the entire Lucchese family, all of whom he held close to his heart. Tom had an extensive circle of close, loving and caring friends and Joe would like to thank them for their endless support, kindness and generosity. They include Frank Altese and Marty Matkovich, Arlene and Joe Anasagasti, Eileen and Frank Arencio, Louise and “Uncle” George Cubillas, Vito D’Alessandro, Joe Famulari, Vito Gentile and Peter Beston, Bob Goldberg and Bill Morch, Angela Grande, Josephine and Peter Kairis, The Jacobs Family, Joy Lanza, Diana Ledon, Nancy and Gerrit LeGrand, Dali Levy and Steve Vegliante, the Resnick Family, Myrna and Alex Rey and Ida Tjeknavorian. A graduate of the Fashion Institute of Technology, Tom obtained a Bachelor's degree in fashion design and went on to make a significant impact as the Vice President of lingerie and loungewear at Cinema Etoile in New York. His career began with designing exquisite evening wear for Kiki Hart before he transitioned to intimate apparel at Eve Stillman. He further enriched the fashion world with his creations for Barad & Co and Brandywine. Tom's personal life was as vibrant as his professional one. Known for his quick wit and radiant smile, he brought joy and laughter wherever he went. His impeccable sense of style and gentlemanly demeanor were unparalleled, and his ability to make everyone feel welcome and valued was a testament to his generous spirit. He had an innate love for shopping and travel, enjoyed all types of music, and found joy in the theater and cinema. Above all, the Christmas holidays were his favorite time of the year, he always made sure that his house was decorated from top to bottom. His home was a sanctuary of warmth where he always delighted in entertaining family and friends. A The celebration of Tom's life will be held on October 9, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at St. Joseph - St. Thomas Church, located at 6135 Amboy Road, Staten Island, N.Y. 10309. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to the Parkinson's Foundation, a cause close to Tom's heart. Joseph Lucchese extends his deepest gratitude to Dr. Christine Drafta, Patricia Cronk NP, the dedicated team at NYU / Langone Neurology for their years of compassionate care. Special thanks also go to Dr. David Schwalb, Dr. Inderpol Singh, Dr. Nancy Condro, the nurses and aides of Hospice of Orange and Sullivan Counties and especially to Tom’s healthcare aide and friend, Jackie Sanchez, whose dedication, friendship and kindness were invaluable. Tom Bezduda will be remembered for his profound impact on those he encountered, his exceptional contributions to fashion, and his unwavering kindness, compassion and generosity. His legacy will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew him.
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