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Thomas Lloyd Graham

November 12, 1954 — April 23, 2026

November 12, 1954 – April 23, 2026 With heavy hearts and profound love, we announce the passing of Thomas Lloyd Graham, who departed this life on April 23, 2026, in the warm embrace of his family. Born on November 12, 1954, in Whiteville, NC, Thomas was the cherished son of Norman Shipman and Sylvia Graham Shipman. His life was a testament to love, laughter, and an indomitable spirit that left an indelible mark on everyone he encountered. Thomas was a proud graduate of Acme-Delco High School, Class of 1973, and began his career at DuPont, where he worked diligently until he embraced a well-deserved retirement. Never one to rest on his laurels, Thomas pursued numerous certifications, showcasing his versatile talents in fields ranging from heavy equipment operation to mechanics, carpentry, and long-distance driving with his CDLs. His passion for learning was paralleled only by his love for motorcycles, each one a new adventure waiting to be embraced. Fishing was a lifelong passion for Thomas, and he often found solace at Johnny Mercer’s pier at Wrightsville Beach, NC, where his laughter echoed across the waves. A gifted gardener, he delighted in sharing the bounty of his harvest with family and friends, reflecting his generous spirit and love for nurturing growth. Thomas was predeceased by his parents, Norman and Sylvia Graham Shipman, and joined in eternal rest by his loving wife, Gretel Graham, his beloved daughter and namesake, Thomasa Graham, and a host of other treasured family members including Mary Shipman and Jerry Lee Addison. Left to cherish his memory are his surviving daughters, Mable Michelle Graham and Gretina Lanet Swindell, along with his adored granddaughters, Morgan Campbell, Madison Campbell, Kenadie Swindell, and Kelsie Swindell. Thomas is also survived by his brothers, Norman Shipman and Charles Shipman, and his sister, Lisa Shipman. His extended family and countless friends, each touched by his kindness and infectious joy, will dearly miss him. Known for his quick wit and warm smile, Thomas had a remarkable ability to make everyone feel welcome and valued. He never met a stranger and his kindness and generosity touched the hearts of many. His life was a beacon of love and laughter, and his legacy will continue to inspire all who knew him. A celebration of Thomas's life will be held on April 30, 2026, at 10:00 AM at the Greater Bolton COGIC, 150 Blacksmith Rd, Bolton, NC 28423. For those unable to attend, a livestream will be available via Facebook. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the staff at Majestic Funeral Services for their compassionate care during this difficult time. To all family and friends, your loving spirit, kind words, and helping hands have been a source of comfort. May God continue to bless each of you. Thomas Lloyd Graham will forever be in our hearts, his memory a guiding light in our lives.

Funeral Program

Service Details

April 30, 202610:00
Greater Bolton COGIC, 150 Blacksmith Rd, Bolton, NC 28423150 Blacksmith Rd, Bolton, NC 28423

Order of Service

Processional
Hymn of ComfortGreater Bolton Church of God in Christ
Scripture ReadingsOld Testament….Iris Edward’s
Faith Temple COGIC, Wilmington, NC
New Testament.Minister Lenda B Hankins
Bolivia, NC
Prayer of Comfort.Bryan Williams
The Latter House Ministries
SoloMaretta Wilson
AcknowlegementsMrs. Dottie Bowen Brown
Silent Reading of the obituary.Soft music
Poem..Ms Petrina Bryant (Class of 1992)
Read by the Mrs. Dottie Brown
Reflections (Please limit to 2 minutes)
Class of 1973 ADHS..Mr Jimmie Bowen
Sister.Ava Jane Webb
BrotherPaul Blanks
Song from Greater Bolton Church of God in Christ Choir
Eulogy..Pastor Shawn Maynor
Mortician in Charge..Eric Matthews Majestic Funeral Services
RecessionalGreater Bolton Church of God in Christ

I’m Free

Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free, I took His hand when I heard Him call, I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day, To laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way, I found that peace at the close of day. If my parting has left a void, Then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, Ah, yes, these things I too will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorrow, I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life's been full, I savored much, Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief, Don't lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your hearts and peace to thee, God wanted me now; He set me free.

Special Thanks

The family of Thomas Lloyd Graham extends heartfelt gratitude for your prayers, support, and kindness during this time.