In Loving Memory

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Thelma Pantoja

July 5, 1936 — October 14, 2026

Thelma ("Temp") Pantoja passed away peacefully in her home on October 14, 2026 at the age of 90. Born in Kenly, NC on July 5, 1936, she grew up in Salemburg, but later moved to Fayetteville where she resided until she passed.????? (do you want this?) Thelma was preceded in death by her husband, Benito Pantoja Jr., and her later life partner, Charles "Stretch" Helmick; two sisters, Virginia Williams and Katie Smith, along with her brothers Lacy Pierce, Pharoah Pierce, Coley Pierce, and Moses Pearce. She is survived by her daughters, Pat Durando of Mesquite, Nevada and Sandy __of Newport News,(is this Hampton?) Virginia, _grandchildren; one great-grandchild, and a host of nephews and nieces????? (how do you want to list them?)who will hold her memory in their hearts. Thelma's career path led her to the dietary department of the VA Hospital, a role she cherished, serving those who had bravely served the nation. Her life was built upon a foundation of love and selflessness. She was known for her "open arms and open doors," always ready to offer help to those in need. She possessed a passion for loving others and in most recent years was often heard saying, "I love you" to those she held near and dear. Thelma's caring spirit was a beacon of hope and comfort to those fortunate enough to know her. Family and friends will gather to honor Thelma's memory on October 19, 2026, from 11 to 1 PM at Colvin Funeral Home & Crematory located at 2010 Murchison Road, Fayetteville, NC.?????( do you want to separate the viewing time from the service time). ??????In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to a charity of your choice, a gesture that would surely honor Thelma's lifelong commitment to helping others.????????? As we bid farewell to Thelma, let us remember the joy, love, and kindness she imparted on this world. Her legacy will continue to inspire us to live with the same open-heartedness and generosity that she embodied every day of her remarkable life.

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