In Loving Memory

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Raymond Terry White IV

April 29, 1973 — August 2, 2026

Raymond Terry White IV, affectionately known to his family and friends as Ray, passed away on August 2, 2026. Born on April 29, 1973, in Milford, Connecticut, Ray was a loving father, devoted partner, and cherished friend. He was preceded in death by his father, Raymond Terry White III, whose memory he held dear throughout his life. Ray's journey was marked by his profound kindness, infectious laughter, and a remarkable ability to bring joy to those around him. His quick wit, warm smile, and beautiful bright blue eyes were his trademarks, always ready with a joke to lighten any room. Ray had a rare gift for making everyone feel welcome and valued, and his generosity touched countless lives. On September 7, 2017, Ray met the love of his life, Jessica Krista. Their bond was a testament to enduring love, and they shared a beautiful relationship that spanned almost a decade. While not formally married, Ray and Jessica's commitment to each other was evident to all who knew them. A true enthusiast of music and classic entertainment, Ray had a deep love for Star Wars and found great joy in watching "Match Game" and other iconic game shows of the 1970s. His passion for these timeless stories and shows was a source of many lively conversations and happy moments shared with friends and family. Ray is survived by his beloved fiancé, his son Corey. Corey’s first born daughter Monet (10) and second born Iyla (2). His son Austin and Austin’s daughter Moxxi (2) and a host of friends and extended family who will forever cherish their memories with him. The family invites all who knew and loved Ray to a service celebrating his life on August 30, 2026, at 11:00 AM at Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home. While Ray may no longer be with us in person, his light continues to shine in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. His legacy of love, laughter, and kindness will forever remain a guiding star for all who were blessed to call him family and friend.

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