Paul Yates

It is with heavy hearts and profound respect that we commemorate the life of Paul Yates, who peacefully passed away on May 13, 2026, at the age of 70. Paul drew his last breath with his beloved youngest daughter, Laura, by his side, while other cherished family members were en route to bid their final farewells. Born on November 8, 1955, in the picturesque landscape of South England, Paul was the cherished son of Francis William Yates and Joan Mary Maisey. Though he has now joined his late wife, Valerie May Goulding, in eternal rest, his legacy continues to thrive in the lives of those who remain. Paul and Valerie's love story began in 1977 when they married, embarking on a journey that saw them cross oceans and continents. At the tender age of 22, Paul courageously left England, setting down roots in the United States. The couple's life was a tapestry woven with vibrant experiences, from the bustling streets of New York City to the sunlit shores of Boca Raton, Florida, eventually finding serenity amidst the tranquil beauty of Brevard, North Carolina. It was here that they chose to nurture their family, raising their two daughters, Jennifer and Laura, with unwavering devotion. A man of diverse talents and interests, Paul's professional journey was as rich and varied as his personal one. He began his career as a computer programmer during the technological boom of the 1970s and 80s. Driven by an entrepreneurial spirit, he went on to own and operate a successful chain of laundromats before finding fulfillment in the compassionate role of a phlebotomist, where he was known for his gentle touch and reassuring presence. Beyond his professional endeavors, Paul was a man of culture and intellect, a steadfast advocate for the classics. His passion for early Bond films and mid-century cinema was infectious, and he took great joy in sharing the wit and whimsy of British humor, particularly the comedic genius of Monty Python, with his daughters. Paul was a formidable chess player and a keen backgammon enthusiast, never shying away from a friendly challenge. Paul's character was defined by his kindness, wit, and unwavering politeness, qualities that endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He possessed a unique ability to lighten burdens, offering support and comfort in times of need. His warmth, humor, and integrity left an indelible mark on the world. Paul's memory continues to shine brightly in the hearts of his surviving family: his daughters, Jennifer and Laura, their husbands, Larry and Christian, and his cherished grandson, Luka. He was a guiding light, a steady husband, and a loving father, who leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and compassion. In accordance with Paul’s wishes, a private funeral ceremony will be held to celebrate his life and honor his memory. To those who knew and loved Paul, his family shares this special message: "It was Paul's time to pass to the other side. He is missed and will be missed. He made the world a better place, and he has earned his rest and his peace. He lives on with the memories he leaves us, with the role modeling of how to be a steady husband, a helpful father, and a good man. We could all strive to be more like him." In this time of reflection, we celebrate Paul Yates' life, a testament to the beauty of a life well-lived. May his spirit find eternal peace, and may we honor him by embodying the gentleness, humor, and kindness he exemplified in his extraordinary journey.