Patricia Ann Phelps

Patricia Borkoff Phelps, a luminous soul and cherished member of her community, passed away on June 28, 2026, in the comforting embrace of her home in Alpine, California. Born on December 13, 1947, in Cleveland, Ohio, Patricia's journey was one of love, resilience, and service to others. Her courageous 24-year battle with Parkinson's Disease ended peacefully, leaving behind a legacy of hope and strength. Patricia, or "Pat" as she was affectionately known, was the beloved daughter of Allard and Elizabeth Borkoff (Burke). She was predeceased by her parents, Betty Mann and stepfather Hank Westcott, whose memories she cherished deeply. Patricia is survived by her devoted husband, JP Pete Phelps, her loving son, Christopher Liosi, and her treasured grandchild, who brought immense joy to her life. A proud alumna of Bedford High School, class of 1966, Patricia was eagerly anticipating her 60th class reunion this week. Her academic pursuits led her to Ohio State University, followed by technical X-ray school, where she honed her skills and embarked on a fulfilling career as an X-ray technician at Sunrise Hospital in Las Vegas. Patricia seamlessly balanced her roles, also working as a Realtor with Coldwell Banker. In 1984, Patricia moved to San Diego, and the following year, she and Pete exchanged vows in a beautiful backyard ceremony overlooking Mission Bay. Their marriage was a testament to love and partnership. Never one to shy away from challenges, Patricia opened the Same Old Grind in Clairemont, one of San Diego's pioneering coffee businesses. Even after retiring to Alpine in 2004, her entrepreneurial spirit thrived, leading her to establish Same Old Suds laundromat in Santee, which she ran for five years. Patricia's spirit of giving extended beyond her professional life. She was deeply involved in the Parkinson's community, walking and sponsoring her "Team Imagine" in the Parkinson's 5K "Walk for the Cure" annually from 2002 to 2026. Her compassionate heart and dedication to finding a cure were unwavering. Her interests were as diverse as her talents. Patricia was a vibrant part of the San Diego baseball community, supporting Chris through Tecolote Youth Baseball, USD, Italian League baseball, and Chris' ownership of Brickyard Cages, the baseball training facility near Mission Bay Her home was also graced by the companionship of 13 loyal German Shepherds and Golden Retrievers, who offered comfort and companionship throughout her life. Patricia's quick wit, charm, and innate friendliness left an indelible mark on everyone she met. Known for her ability to bring people together, she was the glue that held her family and community close. Her generosity of spirit and unwavering kindness will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Patricia's final services will be held at Miramar National Cemetery, located at 5795 Nobel Drive, San Diego, on August 13, 2026, at 11:30 AM, followed by a celebration of her life back in Alpine. In honor of Patricia's life and her battle with Parkinson's, donations can be made to the Parkinson's Association in San Diego, CA. if you feel that is appropriate The family wishes to share a special message: "If you can, home hospice, in familiar surroundings, is the best place I know of to share your final time with someone that you have loved all of your life." Patricia's life was a testament to this sentiment, filled with love, laughter, and an unyielding spirit that will continue to inspire all who knew her.