In Loving Memory

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Pamela Ruth Pickler

April 15, 1948 — February 12, 2026

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Pamela Ruth Pickler, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend, who left this world peacefully on February 12, 2026, at the age of 77. Born on April 15, 1948, in Flint, Michigan, Pam was a beacon of love and kindness whose legacy will forever illuminate the hearts of those she touched. Pam was the cherished daughter of the late Martin and Ruth Baker and was predeceased by her brother Doug and sister-in-law Ellen Baker. Her family roots were deeply planted in love and unity, values she carried throughout her life and imparted to her own family. Pam shared an extraordinary love with her devoted husband, Roy Pickler, a partnership of 57 years that began on August 15, 1970. Together, they built a life rich with laughter, adventure, and unwavering support, a testament to enduring love and commitment. As a mother, Pam was unparalleled. She and Roy raised three remarkable children, Jason (married to Sara), David (married to Amber), and Kate (married to Damon Nicely), who were the pride and joy of her life. Her legacy extends through her adored grandchildren, Owen, Ryker, Finley, Kinslee, and Faryn, who will carry forward her spirit of love and compassion. Pam was a dedicated educator whose career spanned decades. She began her journey teaching special education and later devoted herself to nurturing young minds through the Head Start program. Her students were always "her kids," and she celebrated their growth and achievements as if they were her own. Her contagious smile and servant's heart left an indelible mark on everyone she met, turning classrooms into havens of learning and love. Her kindness knew no bounds. Pam's generosity and warmth extended beyond her family, as she effortlessly turned acquaintances into lifelong friends. Her smiling eyes and warm embraces were a source of comfort, and her ability to reignite friendships, no matter the time or distance, was truly remarkable. Pam is survived by her loving husband Roy, their cherished children and spouses, her treasured grandchildren, and her dear brother Norm (married to Jan) Baker. Her family, friends, and countless others who had the privilege of knowing her will deeply miss her presence. A service to honor and celebrate Pam's life will be held at River Oaks Church, located at 58020 Co Rd 115, Goshen, IN 46528, on February 28, 2026, at 3:00 PM. In remembrance of Pam's generous spirit, the family kindly requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Bashor Children's Home, a cause close to her heart. Contributions can be made at https://bashor.org/GETINVOLVED/Donate.aspx. Pamela Ruth Pickler lived a life full of grace, love, and selfless devotion. Her legacy will forever be cherished in the hearts of all who knew her. Though she has said goodbye, her spirit will continue to guide and inspire us. Rest in peace, dear Pam, as you join the angels above.