
In Loving Memory

Pamela C. Herska
April 5, 1964 — June 11, 2026
Pamela C. Herska, a beloved mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on June 11, 2026, after a long and courageous battle with breast cancer. Born on April 5, 1964, in Nyack, New York, Pamela's life was a testament to resilience, grace, and boundless love.
Pamela devoted 25 years of her career to being a dedicated dental office manager, where her warm smile and keen organizational skills brought comfort and efficiency to her colleagues and patients alike. Her professional life was marked by her unwavering commitment to excellence and her ability to uplift those around her.
Beyond her career, Pamela's life was enriched by her passions and hobbies. She found immense joy in music and often filled her home with melodies that resonated with her vibrant spirit. An avid cook, Pamela delighted in preparing meals that brought her family together, nourishing both body and soul. Her artistic flair shone through her painting, where she expressed her creativity and found tranquility.
Pamela's heart was most full when surrounded by her family. She cherished every moment spent with her five grandchildren and one great-grandchild, who brought her immeasurable pride and happiness. Her legacy of love and laughter continues through her surviving children, Joseph Roman and Tiffany Schelmety, who carry forward her spirit of kindness and joy.
Those who knew Pamela remember her as an easy-going, loving, and funny individual whose infectious laughter could brighten any room. Her ability to find humor and light in life's challenges was a gift to all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Pamela was predeceased by her cherished daughter, Tiffany, and son, Joseph, who she now joins in eternal peace.
A private funeral ceremony will be held to honor Pamela's life. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly suggests that donations be made in Pamela's memory to a breast cancer research organization of your choice.
Pamela's departure leaves a void in the hearts of many, but her legacy of love, resilience, and joy will forever endure in the memories of those she touched. May she rest in peace, surrounded by the music and laughter she so dearly loved.