Oscar James Smith

Oscar James Smith was born on May 5, 1942, to the late Henry Blanton Smith, Sr. and Frances Ann Smith. He was one of twelve children born to their union. He was preceded in death by his parents, eleven siblings, and his beloved son, Kevin James Smith. Oscar was raised in Arkansas in a hardworking family of sharecroppers. Those humble beginnings instilled in him a strong work ethic, resilience, and a love for working with his hands. The Smith family relocated to St. Louis, Missouri, where Oscar met Gladys Jackson, who would later become his wife and the mother of their family. After graduating high school, Oscar proudly served in the United States Air Force. Following his military service, he and Gladys relocated their family to New York, where they purchased their first home in Queens. Oscar transformed that home with his own hands, doing electrical work, plumbing, carpentry, and countless improvements with the help of Gladys and their children. His ability to fix almost anything and his willingness to help others made him the person friends and neighbors could always call when something needed to be repaired. Oscar’s North Carolina home later became the fulfillment of one of his lifelong dreams. His garage served as his workshop and sanctuary, where he repaired automobiles and appliances, built furniture, and took on countless home improvement projects. He even designed and built an addition to his home, creating the sunroom that became one of his favorite places to relax. Whether working in his yard, swimming, exercising, traveling, or spending time outdoors, Oscar enjoyed the simple pleasures of life. Those who knew him well would also say he was always ready to “supervise” and make sure things were done Oscar’s Way. One of Oscar’s greatest joys was his family. He treasured traveling to visit loved ones, attending family gatherings, sharing stories, playing cards, taking road trips, and simply being together. He especially looked forward to the annual W.G. Smith Family Reunion, where he enjoyed reconnecting with family, laughing, and creating lasting memories. His unmistakable personality, humor, and willingness to say exactly what he thought made his presence unforgettable. He also found comfort and enjoyment in listening to his beloved blues music. Although Oscar did not always express his love with words, his family knew how deeply he cared for them. Many years ago, Oscar heard the message of Bible truth, and it remained with him throughout his life. Although he was never baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, he continued to grow in his appreciation for God’s Word by attending meetings at the Kingdom Hall and supporting congregation activities. Even as his health declined, he made every effort to attend the first public talk of his family members whenever possible. He took great pride in witnessing the baptisms of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren and found great comfort in seeing his family serve Jehovah. Oscar leaves behind a legacy of hard work, determination, craftsmanship, humor, family, and faith. His presence will be deeply missed, but the memories he created and the love he shared will remain in the hearts of those who knew and loved him. He is survived by his daughters, Anita Selby (Darryl, Sr.) and Lisa Smith Taylor (Sean); Gladys Smith, mother of his family; and his only living sibling, Lee Smith. Grandchildren Darnita Bell (Dwight) and their children, Malachi, Makiyah, Makalynn, and Jaleesa ; Darryl Selby, Jr. (Tiana) and their daughter, Ava; Darrell Selby (Britney) and their children, Alanah and Asyn; Daylnn Foster (Curtis) and their children, Uriah Denell Selby. Bonus Grandchildren Bryanna Dunlap, Brittney Kemp, Lauren Larry, and Davida Massard. He is also survived by his extended W.G. Smith family of nieces and nephews (Smiths, Stinnettes, Wallaces, Warrens), and his very dear friend, Lizzie Lashley.