In Loving Memory
MR
Matthew Ryan Afflerbach
August 29, 1994 — August 10, 2026
Matthew Ryan Afflerbach, a beloved husband, son, and friend, left this world on August 9, 2026, leaving behind a legacy of love, laughter, and light. Born on August 29, 1994, in Sarasota, Florida, Matthew was a beacon of joy and positivity, known for his infectious smile and the warmth he shared with everyone he met.
Matthew was the cherished son of Marc and Rebecca Afflerbach, his sister, Mary Afflerbach and his nephew Cooper (8) and grew up in a home filled with love and encouragement. Matthew adored his sister and his nephew and spending time with them.
He was a proud graduate of North Port High School and went on to further his education at the University of Alabama, where he graduated with an associate degree, and later at Arizona State University, where he earned his bachelor's degree in 2023.
In 2012, Matthew answered the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Air Force. Over the course of his service, he achieved the rank of E4 in the Ability Air Forces Integrated Instrument/FLT Control Systems. He was honorably discharged in 2015, having earned several commendations, including the AAF Outstanding Unit Award, National Defense Service Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, and AF Training Ribbon.
Matthew's life was enriched by his deep love for his family and his commitment to helping others. He was predeceased by his beloved family members Edmond Roger Beaudoin, June M Bell, James Bell, and Phyllis Ansell, but his memory lives on through his surviving family: his devoted spouse, Brandon M Afflerbach; his sister, Mary E. Afflerbach (Cooper); his grandparents, Alan and Ruth Afflerbach, and Lisa Beaudoin; and a host of aunts, uncles, and cousins who adored him.
Matthew's love story with Brandon began in December 2022, and they married on September 2, 2025. Their journey together was marked by adventure and exploration, as they traveled to Amsterdam, Maine, and countless other destinations. They especially cherished their visits to Nashville and had recently returned from a honeymoon cruise. In 2025, they had the unique opportunity to study abroad in Malaysia, immersing themselves in diverse cultures—a trip Matthew eagerly planned to revisit.
Those who knew Matthew will remember his big, quirky smile and his ability to lighten any room with humor and kindness. He had an extraordinary gift for making everyone feel welcome and valued, touching countless lives with his genuine spirit.
A memorial service to celebrate Matthew's life will be held at the Sarasota National Cemetery at a later day.
Matthew's departure leaves an irreplaceable void, but his spirit will continue to inspire and guide those who were fortunate enough to know him. His life was a testament to the power of laughter, love, and unwavering kindness.
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