Mary Lou Feilen

Mary Lou Feilen, a beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on October 24, 2026, after a courageous battle with cancer. She was surrounded by her loving family who will forever cherish her memory. Born in Drayton, North Dakota, on November 26, 1946, Mary Lou was a beacon of love and kindness throughout her life. Mary Lou was the cherished daughter of Mary and Robert Kirkeby. She grew up in a close-knit family, alongside her siblings and parents, who predeceased her: Mary Kirkeby, Robert Kirkeby, David Kirkeby, and Darlene Kirkeby. Their values and love have been carried forward by Mary Lou in her own family. Family was at the heart of everything Mary Lou did. She was the devoted mother to Ann (Vincent) Ramsey, Harry (Darla) Feilen, and Debbie (Stephen) Hawkinson. Her children remember her as a nurturing and supportive presence who encouraged and inspired them in every endeavor. Mary Lou's legacy of love and strength continues through her nine grandchildren: Krystle (Marty) Herman, Justin Ramsey, Megan (Kayla Mehrkens) Ramsey, David Feilen, Mitchell Feilen, Missy Feilen, Amber (Andrew) Parisesu, Cassandra (Ian) Mabry, and their families. She was also the proud great-grandmother to eight great-grandchildren, who brought immense joy to her life. Mary Lou was a dedicated member of St. Michael's Church, where she found solace and community. Her faith and her involvement in the church were central to her life, and she found great fulfillment in her service and fellowship there. Mary Lou's warmth, compassion, and unwavering spirit will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Her life was a testament to the power of love, resilience, and faith. Her family finds comfort in knowing that she is now reunited with her loved ones who have gone before her, and her legacy will continue to inspire those she leaves behind. In honor of Mary Lou's life, the family suggests that donations be made to a charity of choice, reflecting her generous spirit and commitment to helping others. Mary Lou Feilen will be remembered as a matriarch whose love knew no bounds, and her spirit will forever remain in the hearts of those she touched.