In Loving Memory

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Kurt Jake Derden

May 26, 1966 — October 11, 2026

Kurt Jake Derden, beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend, passed away on October 11, 2026. Born on May 26, 1966, in Danville, Indiana, Kurt was the cherished son of the late Faye Helen and Jerry Derden. Kurt's journey through life was marked by his unwavering integrity, boundless knowledge, and a heart full of warmth and generosity. He was a man whose very presence brought comfort, laughter, and wisdom to those fortunate enough to know him. With a knack for storytelling, Kurt never hesitated to share his words of wisdom or a light-hearted joke, always leaving a lasting impression on those around him. In 1984, Kurt graduated from Eldorado High School, paving the way for his pursuit of higher education. He went on to earn a Bachelor's degree in Criminal Justice from New Mexico State University in 1995, where he was an active member of Lambda Chi Alpha. His pursuit of knowledge and dedication to his studies were a testament to his commitment to giving 110% in everything he undertook. Kurt's heart and home were filled with his wife, Elena, whom he married on July 16, 2016, in Albuquerque, New Mexico. Together, they shared ten wonderful years of marriage, traveling the world, hosting gatherings, and exploring the natural beauty of their surroundings on hikes. Kurt was a devoted father to his children, Stefani, Kiri, Taci, Mikali, and Jacob, and a doting grandfather to Leyna, Jeremiah, Malaiya, Alana, Jaylis, and Caleah. A man of many passions, Kurt was known for never missing a day at the gym and for his green thumb, tending lovingly to his backyard oasis of mango, banana, and fig trees. He found peace and joy in relaxing to music amidst the beauty of his garden. His culinary skills were legendary, with his yellow cake with chocolate frosting, sourdough pancakes with maple syrup, and steak with mashed potatoes leaving an indelible mark on family gatherings. Kurt is survived by his wife, Elena; his children, Stefani, Kiri, Taci, Mikali, and Jacob; his grandchildren, Leyna, Jeremiah, Malaiya, Alana, Jaylis, and Caleah; and his siblings, Paula, Lesa, Marnie, Angela, and Shayne. He is predeceased by his parents, Faye and Jerry; his sister, Julie James; brother-in-law, Bruce Aminian; and nephew, Ryan Masson. A celebration of Kurt's life will be held on October 25, 2026, at 12:00 PM at Dreams Event Studio, located at 9577 Osuna Rd NE, Suite M2, Albuquerque, NM, 87111. Family and friends are invited to gather and honor the remarkable life of a man who touched so many with his kindness and humor.