In Loving Memory

Photo of John B. Scalera Jr.

John B. Scalera Jr.

December 24, 1960 — May 13, 2026

John B. Scalera Jr., a cherished husband, devoted father, and beloved grandfather, passed away unexpectedly at his home on May 13, 2026, at the age of 65. Born on Christmas Eve in 1960, in the quaint town of Carmel, NY, John was a gift to all who knew him, embodying the spirit of generosity and warmth that his birthdate suggests. John was the proud son of John Scalera and Diane Judell, who both predeceased him. He carried their legacy of kindness and resilience throughout his life, impacting everyone he encountered. Raised in a nurturing environment, John developed a profound love for family values and community service, traits that defined his remarkable life. A man of many talents, John was known for his unwavering dedication to his family and his work. He was a man who believed in the power of love, laughter, and hard work. Over the years, he cultivated a career that not only provided for his family but also inspired those around him. His colleagues often spoke of his integrity and the respect he commanded through his actions. John's heart belonged to his family, and his greatest joy was being surrounded by those he loved. He leaves behind his loving wife of 20 years, who was not only his partner but his best friend. Together, they built a life filled with love, adventure, and shared dreams. John was a proud father to his children, Keli, Darwin, Darlito, and John Battista, all of whom were the light of his life. His guidance and unconditional love will forever remain etched in their hearts. In addition to his children, John was blessed with the joy of being a grandfather to two adoring grandchildren. His eyes would light up with pride and happiness at the mere mention of their names, and he relished every moment spent with them, creating cherished memories that will be treasured for generations. John's presence was a beacon of light, and his absence leaves a void that will be deeply felt by all who knew him. However, his legacy of love, kindness, and generosity will continue to inspire those he leaves behind. He will be remembered for his warm smile, his comforting presence, and the way he made everyone feel like family. A celebration of John's life will be held at a later date for family and friends to gather and honor the incredible man he was. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a charity close to John's heart, ensuring that his spirit of giving continues to touch lives. John B. Scalera Jr. will be profoundly missed but never forgotten, as his spirit lives on in the hearts and minds of all who had the privilege to know him. May he rest in peace, surrounded by the love he so freely gave in life.