In Loving Memory
JR
Jered Riley Howard
October 29, 1981 — August 17, 2026
It is with heavy hearts and profound love that we honor the life of Jered Riley Howard, who passed away on August 17, 2026. Born on October 29, 1981, in Chehalis, Washington, Jered was a beacon of warmth and joy to all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Jered was the beloved son of the late Verlin R. Howard and Donna L. Tayeh. He shared his life with his cherished spouse, Cody R. Avila, with whom he enjoyed eleven fulfilling years of marriage since their union on December 19, 2014. Jered was a devoted father to his son, Xavier Howard, who was the light of his life.
A true renaissance man, Jered had a diverse array of skills that made him a Jack-of-all-trades. He was always tinkering and exploring new interests, which made him a captivating conversationalist. Jered's conversations could range from the intricacies of local geography to countless other topics, reflecting his innate curiosity and zest for knowledge.
Jered's laid-back and gregarious nature made him a welcoming presence in any room. He had a unique ability to make everyone feel valued and appreciated, creating connections and friendships that lasted a lifetime. He was a brother to Athena L. Backus, Marsena Anderson-Horton, Angela R. Howard, Samantha N. Conlin, and Joseph Horton. His love extended to his nieces and nephews: Keosha M. Ferrier-Howard, Allyssa Last, Elizabeth Greco, Skylar O. Warren, Mikai Anderson, and Jonathon N. Howard.
Jered's family remembers him with great affection, sharing the words of Henry David Thoreau: "My Life Has Been the Poem, by Henry David Thoreau. My life has been the poem I would have writ, But I could not both live and Utter it." These words encapsulate Jered's vibrant and expressive life, one that was lived fully and joyously.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to a charity of your choice in Jered's memory. His legacy of kindness, curiosity, and love will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know him.
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