In Loving Memory

Photo of Gary Allen Parham

Gary Allen Parham

July 23, 1959 — February 11, 2026

It is with deep sorrow yet profound love that we announce the passing of Gary Allen Parham, a cherished soul and beloved member of our community. Gary, aged 66, departed this life on February 11, 2026, in St. Joseph, Missouri, the very city where his life's journey began on July 23, 1959. Born to Gertrude Maxine and Clifford Parham, Gary was a spirited and loving man, whose presence was a source of joy and warmth to everyone who knew him. Throughout his life, Gary remained deeply connected to his roots in St. Joseph. His love for the community was evident in his frequent visits to friends and family, embracing them with his warm, outgoing nature. To Gary, there was no greater joy than spending time with those he loved, sharing stories, laughter, and creating memories that will be cherished forever. Gary was predeceased by his loving parents, Gertrude and Clifford Parham, his son Scott Ritter, and his dear siblings: Carolyn Jean Mitchell, Jakey Cogdill, Sharon Mitchell, and Alma Stiglic. Their memories, along with Gary’s, will forever remain in our hearts. He leaves behind a legacy of love through his surviving family: his devoted son, Christopher Ritter of Saint Joseph, Missouri, and his siblings: Clifford Parham of St. Joseph, Missouri, Richard Parham of Rushville, Missouri, Roberta Walker of St. Joseph, Missouri, Doylene Ball of Stewartsville, Missouri, and Carl Parham of St. Joseph, Missouri. Each of them carries a piece of Gary’s spirit, forever touched by his kindness and love. Gary’s warmth and generosity touched many lives, and his memory will continue to be a beacon of light for all who knew him. He will be remembered for his vivacious spirit, his unwavering commitment to family and friends, and the joy he brought into the world through his simple acts of kindness. May Gary Allen Parham rest in eternal peace, forever remembered and forever loved.

Funeral Program

The Road They Loved

The Road They Loved They walked the roads that knew their name, Where every tree and porchlight came To greet them with a gentle grace, A friendly nod, a familiar face. They wandered paths beneath wide skies, With open heart and smiling eyes. No mile was wasted, no step in vain— Each turn held joy, each street a lane Of stories shared and laughter grown, In the little town they called their own. And though their footsteps now are still, The roads they loved wind onward still. In every sunrise, every breeze, Their spirit walks among the trees. For love like theirs does not depart— It lingers on in every heart.

23rd Psalm

The Lord is my shepherd: I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures; He leadeth me beside still waters. He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for His name's sake; yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for Thou art with me; Thy rod and Thy staff they comfort me; Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies; Thou anointest my head with oil, my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord, forever.