In Loving Memory

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Duane L Day

November 29, 1929 — June 9, 2026

Duane Lee Day November 29, 1929 – June 9, 2026 Duane Lee Day, 96, passed away peacefully on June 9, 2026, at his home in Wildomar, California, surrounded by his loving family after a brief illness. Born in Flint, Michigan, to Arlie Rudolph Day and Mary Ruth Yarnell, Duane dedicated his life to faith, service, education, and family. He graduated from Wayne State University, earned a Master of Divinity from Andover Newton Theological Seminary, and later received a Ph.D. in Divinity from Union Theological Seminary of Columbia University. During his career, Duane served Congregational churches across the country, taught at seminaries, worked in higher education fundraising, and founded Day and Associates, a consulting firm. Duane was a committed advocate for civil rights & social justice. On June 30, 1984, he married the love of his life, Charmaine Shirley, on Catalina Island. He is survived by Charmaine; his children Deborah Day Krull (Ken), Rebecca Caplan (William), Kevin Day, Patricia Day Ten Eyck, and his stepdaughter, Debra Coker; 12 grandchildren; and 10 great-grandchildren. Duane loved sailing, reading, gardening, baseball, and his faithful dog, Teddy. He will be remembered for his deep faith, gentle spirit, compassion, wisdom, and unwavering love.

Funeral Program

Order of Service

WelcomeReverend Nathan
Opening PrayerReverend Nathan
SoloDavid Stoneman
Scripture ReadingReverend Nathan
Obituary ReadingDeborah Day Krull
EulogyReverend Nathan
HymnDavid Stoneman
Closing PrayerReverend Nathan

Prayer of St. Francis

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy. O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.

Celebration of Life

Join us for refreshments and appetizers at Coyote Hills. 12:30 pm to 2:30 pm at 1440 Bastanchury Road

Special Thanks

The family of Duane L Day extends heartfelt gratitude for your prayers, support, and kindness during this time.

Cherished Memories

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