Debra Rae Gardner

It is with profound sadness and heavy hearts that we announce the untimely passing of Debra Rae Gardner, who left this world on October 15, 2026, after a sudden tragic accident. Born on February 26, 1964, in the vibrant city of Los Angeles, California, Debra was a beloved daughter to Benita Bailey and her adopted father, Joe Kilhoffer. Her life was a tapestry woven with love, laughter, and a spirit that touched all who knew her. Debra was a devoted mother to her children, Jimmy Chapman, Corey Chapman, and Kristina Gardner, plus her bonus daughter Kaelynn Gardner. Her legacy of love extends to her five cherished grandchildren: Michael, Gracie, Keegan, Axel, and Aries, along with her two stepchildren and several step-grandchildren, who will hold her memory close to their hearts .She will also be lovingly remembered by her extended family and dear friends, who will forever hold her in their hearts. Her beloved dogs, Zeus and Shadow, who brought her companionship and joy, will also miss her dearly. Debra was predeceased by her mother, Benita Rae Booth, and her brother, Steven Kilhoffer. She is survived by her brother, Joseph Michael Kilhoffer, whose bond with Debra was unbreakable. Her former partner, Mike Gardner, whom she loved dearly, remained a constant support in her life, caring for her with unwavering dedication even after their separation. An alumna of Choctaw High School, Debra graduated in 1982 with a degree in Graphic Design. Her thirst for knowledge led her to pursue studies in Computer Technology and Emergency Medical Services. Her professional journey was marked by her roles at Direct TV, Seaton Travel, and Gateway Computer Technology, where she was known for her diligence and creativity. A woman of faith, Debra was an active member of No Excuse Ministries, where her warmth and generosity shone brightly. Her quick wit and infectious smile were treasured by her community, and her messages of kindness, and rants resonated with everyone she encountered. Debra found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She loved drawing and painting, and her artistic spirit found its muse in the beauty she saw around her. Drawing , painting, and spending precious moments with her grandchildren filled her days with happiness and meaning. Debra Rae Gardner will forever be remembered for her boundless generosity, her loving heart, and the indelible mark she left on all who were fortunate to know her. As we say goodbye, we hold on to the love she shared and the memories that will sustain us in the days to come.