Charles Thomas "Tom" Whitney Jr.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Charles Thomas "Tom" Whitney Jr., a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend, who departed this life on April 10, 2021, surrounded by the love of his family. Born on April 12, 1943, in Wichita, Kansas, Tom was a beacon of warmth and kindness throughout his 77 years. Tom was the cherished son of the late Charles Whitney Sr. and Isobel Nevins Whitney, and he was preceded in death by his grandparents, Herbert and Lula Whitney, and Mason and Adeline Nevins, as well as his brother-in-law, Nicholas Waddock Jr. Tom's life was a testament to the strength of family bonds and enduring love. He was the beloved husband of Patricia Whitney, with whom he shared a beautiful marriage of nearly 56 years. Their journey together began when they wed on June 26, 1965, in Riverside, Kansas, a day that marked the start of a lifetime of shared dreams and cherished memories. A devoted father, Tom leaves behind two daughters, Amy (David) and Lori (Jeffery), who carry forward his legacy of love and integrity. He was the proud grandfather to Riley, Whitney, William, and Pierce, who were the light of his life and the source of endless joy. His siblings, Jane Waddock, Herbert (Mary Sue), and Mason (Miriam), remember him as a guiding force and a steadfast pillar of support. Tom's extended family included numerous nieces and nephews, all of whom held a special place in his heart: Mary Diener, Jennifer Speirer, Melinda Whitney, John Waddock, Eric Whitney, Kevin Whitney, Michael Whitney, Matthew Whitney, Logan Thomison, and Jon Thomison. He also shared a profound friendship with Randall Hope, whose companionship enriched his life in countless ways. Tom's journey was marked by his resilience and courage, particularly in his final battle with lung cancer. Despite its challenges, he faced each day with grace and dignity, leaving an indelible mark on all who knew him. In honoring Tom's memory, the family has suggested that those who wish to make a memorial contribution do so to a charity of their choice. In this way, Tom's spirit of generosity and compassion will continue to touch lives in ways that echo his own lifelong commitment to helping others. Tom Whitney's life was a tapestry of love, laughter, and unyielding kindness. He will be profoundly missed and fondly remembered by all who were fortunate enough to know him. As we bid farewell, we hold onto the comfort of his memory, which will remain forever in our hearts.