
In Loving Memory
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Benjamin Franklin Frazier Jr.
May 13, 1935 — October 29, 2026
Benjamin Franklin Frazier Jr., a devoted family man, compassionate caregiver, and faithful servant of God, passed away peacefully on October 29, 2026. Born on May 13, 1935, in Montgomery, Alabama, Benjamin was a beacon of love and strength to all who knew him.
The son of Benjamin F. Frazier Sr. and Ethel (Days) Frazier, Benjamin was raised with deep-rooted values that he carried throughout his life. He was predeceased by his parents, his beloved wife Emily Frazier, his cherished daughter Rasalena Frazier, and his dear sister Elizabeth Summers.
Benjamin is survived by his loving wife, Mary Hayes Frazier, with whom he shared a joyful partnership since 2005. His legacy lives on through his devoted children, Minister Regina Frazier-Dean, Lori D. Frazier, Benjamin C. Frazier, David M. Frazier, and Rasheena E. Frazier. He was the proud grandfather of five grandchildren: Beneeta D. Felton, Grwann Frazier, David Frazier, Kiara Tyre Meggie, and Tiara Henry. He also leaves behind six great-grandsons who brought him immeasurable joy. Additionally, Benjamin was a loving stepfather to Marvin, Cynthia, and Gwen, and a cherished brother to Mary Dowling. His best friend and brother in Christ, Wilmer Rowe, along with a host of nieces, nephews, and friends, will remember him fondly.
Benjamin's educational journey took him to the New York School of Printing, but his career path led him to serve others as a Licensed Practical Nurse and a Captain in the New York Department of Corrections. His professional life was marked by fairness, dedication, and a genuine desire to make a difference in the lives of those he served.
A man of deep faith, Benjamin was an active member of several congregations throughout his life, including the First Missionary Baptist Church of Prattville, AL, Faith Baptist Church in Hempstead, NY, and Mount Olive in Brooklyn, NY. His commitment to his faith was evident in his role as a deacon, where he served the Lord with a humble and giving heart.
Benjamin's passions extended beyond his professional and spiritual endeavors. He found joy in singing, bowling, and fishing, activities that he often shared with those he loved. His godly, loving, paternal, and giving nature touched the lives of many, and his fair-mindedness earned him the respect and admiration of his community.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to a charity of your choice in Benjamin's honor. His life was a testament to the power of love, faith, and service, and his memory will be cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
In lieu of flowers, the family of Benjamin Franklin Frazier Jr. welcomes donations to a charity, nonprofit, church, or organization of your choosing.
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