In Loving Memory
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Barry Alan Trattner
March 23, 1941 — August 6, 2026
Barry Alan Trattner, born March 23, 1941 in Cleveland, Ohio, passed away peacefully on August 6, 2026, surrounded by his loving family. He lived a life rich in love, kindness, and devotion, leaving an indelible mark on all who had the privilege to know him.
Barry was the cherished son of Sidney and Dorothy Trattner and was preceded in death by his brother, Jay. He is survived by his beloved wife of 54 years, Mary Lou, who stood by him through every joy and challenge. Together, they built a family grounded in love and mutual respect, raising two extraordinary daughters, Kari and Hallie, who inherited their father's warmth and compassion.
Barry's kindness extended beyond his immediate family, touching the hearts of everyone he encountered. His legacy of love and integrity is carried on by his cherished grandchildren, Charlie and Annabelle, who were the light of his life.
Throughout his life, Barry exemplified what it meant to be kind, warm-hearted, and devoted. His gentle spirit and generous nature were a source of inspiration to his family and friends, and his memory will continue to guide those who knew him.
Barry's life will be honored in a private funeral ceremony. Those wishing to honor his memory are encouraged to make donations to the David M Rubenstein Center for Pancreatic Cancer Research at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, a cause close to his family's heart.
As we bid farewell to Barry, we remember him as a devoted husband, a loving father, a doting grandfather, and a friend to all. His life was a testament to the power of love and kindness, and his spirit will live on in the hearts of those he touched.
In lieu of flowers
Donate to David M Rubenstein Center fir Pancreatic Cancer Research at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center
In memory of Barry Alan Trattner, the family welcomes donations to David M Rubenstein Center fir Pancreatic Cancer Research at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.
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