In Loving Memory

Anthony Douglas Gilmour
November 5, 1966 — September 12, 2026
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Celebration of Life
Why
I asked God, “Why did you take him so soon, when he was so good?” And he answered, “Because he finished the assignment I gave him faster than the rest. The world wasn’t worthy of him, so I brought him home.” I asked again, “But why didn’t you give him more time to live?” And he said, “Because I had to save him from the pain that was coming. You see death as a tragedy, I see it as a rescue.” Still struggling I asked, “Then why does it have to hurt this much? Why leave me here with all this sadness and grief? And he answered, “Grief is just love with nowhere to go. The depth of your pain is proof of the depth of the blessing I gave you.” Finally I asked, “So how am I supposed to walk this earth without his light?” And he said, “You don’t. You absorb his light and carry it forward. He isn’t in your past, he’s waiting in the future.”
Acknowledgement
The family would like to acknowledge Anthony’s nephew, Kenneth Pitts II, whose daily care this past summer made his difficult days easier to face.
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