Anneliese McKinstry

Anneliese McKinstry, a cherished mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully in her sleep on October 6, 2026. Born on March 1, 1937, in the serene village of Eisenschmitt, Germany, Anneliese was the beloved daughter of Franz and Luisa Elisabeth Flesch. She was predeceased by her dear parents, her sister Gisela Konz, her loving husband Richard McKinstry, her son Robin McKinstry, and her grandsons Adam Hale and Brandon McKinstry, as well as great-grandchild Gabriel Hale. Anneliese's life was a tapestry of vibrant experiences and meaningful relationships. She and Richard Lee McKinstry were wed in Speicher, Germany, where their journey together began. Richard's career in the Air Force took them to various states and countries, enriching their lives with diverse cultures and friendships. Anneliese's professional life was one of dedication and warmth. She worked diligently as a waitress, bartender, and bakery clerk, always bringing a touch of joy to those she served. Her commitment to her community was evident in her volunteer work at Mercy Hospital of Merced, where she held the esteemed position of president of the volunteers. Her garden was a testament to her love for nature; she nurtured beautiful flowers and took great pride in her yard. Anneliese's knitting skills were legendary, often surprising her loved ones with cozy blankets and scarves crafted with love. Her culinary talents shone through in her delicious cooking and baking, particularly her renowned German cookies and cakes. Anneliese was a woman of strong character, known for her candidness and a touch of stubbornness that endeared her to those around her. Her kindness knew no bounds; she was always ready to lend a hand or share what she had. Her creativity extended beyond knitting to her skillful seasonal decorations, which brought joy to many. She is survived by her loving children: Gregory McKinstry, Allen Lee McKinstry and his wife Lisa, Judith Ann McKinstry, and Michelle Marie Hale. Her legacy is carried forward by her adoring grandchildren: Anthony Hale and his wife Angela, Matthew McKinstry and his wife Sarah Rose, Michael McKinstry, Mason McKinstry and his wife Sarah, Stephanie Hale and her husband Eric, Christina Reach and her husband Albert, Calvin McKinstry, and Austin Hale and his wife Elisa. Anneliese's great-grandchildren, Andrew, Xavier, Logan, Remy, Maddison, Charlotte, Cameron, Seth, Miles, Capri, Cami, Carter, Cayda, Wyatt, Alistair, Chloe, and Zoey, will continue to feel her love and influence throughout their lives. In honor of Anneliese's life, the family will hold a private ceremony to celebrate her memory. They kindly request that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the ASPCA or VFW, causes that were close to her heart. The family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to Bristol Hospice of Merced for their compassionate care and support during Anneliese's final days. Her family and friends will remember her as a beacon of love, strength, and generosity, and she will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.