
In Loving Memory

Anita (Nani) Wiseman
August 11, 1957 — June 18, 2026
In loving memory of Anita "Nani" Wiseman, a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, cousin, and friend, who departed this world on June 18, 2026. Anita passed away peacefully at home in the comforting presence of her loved ones. Her life, marked by love, creativity, and compassion, will forever be cherished by all who had the honor of knowing her.
Anita was born on August 11, 1957, in the vibrant borough of Brooklyn, New York, to Anita and Mondo DeMella. Raised tough streets of Brooklyn, and moved to New Mexico where she developed a lifelong passion for art and education, which led her to earn a degree in art and childhood education from the University of New Mexico. Her love for art was boundless, encompassing ceramics, painting, jewelry making, and pottery, through which she expressed her unique perspective and enriched the lives of those around her.
As a devoted mother to her children, John Simmons and April Simmons, and a cherished grandmother to six grandchildren—John Wiseman, Samantha Wiseman, Jack Jaramillo, Sara LeDoux, Robert LeDoux, Sondra Hays, Tyler Hays, Jessica Hunter, Brandon Hunter, and Brandon Holifield—Nani's heart overflowed with love and pride. Her seven great-grandchildren—Ezekiel, Jack, Parker, Michael, Jasmine, Miles, and Gwen—were a constant source of joy and inspiration, each visit a reminder of the enduring legacy of love she leaves behind.
Nani's compassionate nature extended far beyond her immediate family. She was an active member of the cluster headaches community, forging deep friendships and offering support to many after her own battle with a brain aneurysm. Her heart of gold touched everyone she met, and her spiritual warmth left a lasting imprint on their lives.
Her beloved pets Moose, as a constant companion, offering her solace and joy, particularly during her courageous fight against cancer. Nani's resilience and grace in the face of adversity were a testament to her indomitable spirit and unwavering faith.
Anita is predeceased by her parents, Anita and Mondo DeMella, and her cherished family members Fanny Perez and Hellen Mella and friend Louise Truman. She is survived by a loving family and a wide circle of friends, including her dear cousins Richard, Robert, Nancy, Hellen, Ana, Denise, and Marie DeMella, and her best friends, Tulonia, Deedra, and Juanita.
The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to the compassionate team at Gentiva Hospice for their unwavering support and care including, Xochitl, Scott, Aileen, Monica, Carolyn and Alyse.
In honoring Nani's memory, let us remember her as a beacon of love, creativity, and kindness. Her legacy lives on in the hearts of all who knew her, a testament to a life well-lived and a love well-shared. May her spirit continue to inspire us to live with the same generosity and compassion she so graciously embodied.
A celebration of Nani's life will be held at , where family and friends will gather to remember the light she brought into the world.